Mind
Before Heart
Leaders do not drop into their heart because someone tells them to. So I talk with you in your own language, and I give your mind the reasons it needs. When the mind is satisfied, it lets us go deeper.
You made the money.What didit cost you?
Relationship coaching for high-performing entrepreneurs
who built the success, and want back what it cost them.
( 01 )
Goal reached.
Now what?
After the goal
You set the goals, and you reached them. The business works and the money is there. And still something is missing, and you can’t quite name it.
This is relationship coaching for people who already know how to win.
I work with entrepreneurs, founders and business owners who built the success, and paid for it with their relationship, their health or their joy.
( 02 )
Success at the expense of something
The price of success
You became successful at building a business and building wealth. And it happened at the expense of something.
For most of the people I work with, it is the relationship with their partner. You pay for everything, and you still hear that you are never home. More ambition will not fix what is missing.
Getting it back does not take away the success. You just stop letting everything else pay for it.
( 03 )
Business is
not the sun
You did not do badly with the old system.
Now it’s time:
to put the relationship with yourself at the center. Then your partner, then everyone else. Business stays important. It is Jupiter, if you want. But it is not the sun.
Most relationship coaches have never sat in a boardroom. Most HR leaders would never talk about intimacy. I do both, and I know people. I have seen from very close what success costs the people who build it.
You don’t need yoga, and you don’t need hippie tantra.
What you need is someone who knows how you think, and can take you from your head into your heart.
I have spent
15
years inside the corporate world, with leaders and their problems
( 05 )
You may recognise this:
In your own words
- You reached your goal, and you don’t know what’s next
- You pay for everything, and you still hear that you are never home
- Your family gets what is left of you after work
- You hold everything together, and nobody holds you
- You don’t want a marriage that only functions. You want to feel it again
Head to
Heart.
This starts with an honest conversation
A consultation is one direct conversation about your business, your relationship and what your success has cost you. You leave with a clear picture, whether we work together or not.
Be there. Be here.
( 06 )
The honest conversation
Mind first. Then heart.
This work starts with one real conversation. It is not a sales call.
Most relationship coaching speaks a language leaders do not trust, or puts them on a yoga mat. I do it differently.
I talk to your mind first, in business language, and I give it the reasons it needs.When the mind is satisfied, we can go deeper, from the head into the heart.
What we’ll look at together:
Where you are now
in your business, in your relationship and in yourself
What success has cost you
your relationship, your health or your joy
The whole chessboard
who needs what from whom, and what nobody is saying
What your partner really needs
which is often not what you think they need
Your own patterns
how you show up at home when the pressure is on
A plan for the next quarter
for your business and for your life
I am direct. I ask for the numbers and I say what I see. I am warm too, but I will not let you hide behind your business.
You already plan your business every quarter. Your relationship deserves the same attention.
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How I work
(with you)
Mind. Heart. Chessboard.
Heart
Over Head
You know the moment when you are in your heart and not in your head. You see things clearly, problems fade, you feel joy and connection. I help you live and lead from there, without losing your edge.
Chessboard
Not Only Your Piece
In a conflict, most people are lost in their own piece. I see the whole board: what each person needs to hear, and what the situation needs. It works at home, and it works between two of your directors.
( 08 )
The mind behind the method
I’m Laura Nordström, and I work with entrepreneurs
whose business is working, and whose relationship is not.
This is not relationship coaching in the usual sense. I have lived the corporate life from inside, done deep work on myself, and lived through a very hard time in my own life. So what I see in you is earned, not theory. I am open and unashamed about sex and intimacy, and I use plain business language to talk about them.
I coach from experience:
- 15 Years in Corporate HR
- HR Manager in Management Teams
- Founder of Lead Your Focus
- Coach on Passion and Intimacy
- Host of Self-Leadership Days
My approach starts with you. First self-awareness, then your needs and desires, then your emotional patterns, and then how you show up in love. The relationship with your partner comes from there, and after it every other relationship you have.
Alive
The honest test
- Did you reach the goal, and feel nothing?
- Does your family get what is left of you?
- Is something missing that you can’t name?
- Do you give everything, except what they need?
- Do you want to feel the spark again?
If “yes”, this work was built for you.
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How a consultation works
No scripts. No jargon. No yoga mat.
One conversation can change how you see your relationship, and start the changes you have been putting off for far too long.
The difference between where you are now and where you want to be is not more effort. It is where you put your attention.
The process
- 01
You reach out
Send a message and tell me, in a few lines, what made you write. I answer personally.
- 02
You prepare
Before we talk, I send you a few short questions. They are not admin. They make you look at what really matters, so we use our time well.
- 03
The consultation
One direct conversation about your business, your relationship and you. No sales pressure. I say what I see.
- 04
You decide
If we are a fit, I send you a proposal for how we could work together. If we are not, you still leave with a clear picture.
- 05
The work begins
We start with you: your own needs and patterns first. Then your partner. Then everyone else.
If your business is working and your relationship is not, the next move is simple: talk to me.
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Your move
You start here
Success was meant to give you a better life, not cost you the people you love.
You don’t have to choose between the business and the relationship. You keep the success, and you get the rest back. It starts with one honest conversation.
What clients say after one conversation
“She Knows Our Type”
I expected a relationship coach. I got someone who talks like a board member and sees straight through me. She told me I was giving my wife everything I could think of, except what she really needed. That hit me.
“Solved in One Conversation”
Two of my directors had not really talked for months. Laura saw what each of them needed to hear, and it was sorted in one conversation. Then she asked me how things were at home.
“I Feel It Again”
No yoga, no jargon. She gave my mind its reasons first, and I was in my heart before I noticed. Now when I walk in the door, I actually feel it again.
